Enjoying seeing girls with long are, having sex with them or what ever is not shallow. What is shallow is all those things and thinking there is not a real person behind it all. I am sure there are many who do think that way and so be it. Keep it to yourself. But to sit there and talk down to any of the girls here, to me that is the shallow part. Some of you wounder why a lot of the girls do post as much here anymore. It is for that simple reason, the disrespect that the girls get from here.