Thanks for sharing your thoughts with me. I never expected a psychological analysis from a forum member but guess I got one anyway and it was FREE. What a bargain... I think this is a long hair forum where those of us exchange pictures, stories, or simply support each other. I don't consider myself a shallow person but I guess that is how your vast experience in the field of mental health evaluations determined. Sorry if I led you astray and made you jump to unwarranted assumptions. I have no intentions of dumping my beautiful wife but only wanted to share our short story with others who might be going in the same direction. Now if only you could pass along your knowledge for a new fuel alternative or solving world peace we would all be doing much better. I am certain the leadership of the world is eager to hear from an intelligent source such as yourself. Thank you again for the free psychology session.