I have always felt that my preference for very long hair limits the number of potential lovers for me in an unhealthy way and by an unnecessary degree.

And unlike big breasts or a firm, round bum, long hair can be changed by the woman in an instant and on a whim - so what you like the most is always endangered. You have to live with a major letdown sooner or later if you do get together with a very longhaired woman in the first place.

And there is the eternal question whether to admit it to her or keep it to yourself. Such a fetish is a perpetually active source of stress. I would rather have lived without it if I could have chosen.