Nobody chooses his or her sexual orientation or preferences. I´m neither proud nor ashamed of my preferences - they are simply there, they are innocent (thank God!), as they don´t lead me into the dangers of child abuse or inflicting pain and suffering on others, and I will just have to live with them, the way others do with their (innocent) preferences of big boobs, round asses, women with glasses, silky stockings, etc.

I just don´t go around telling my friends, colleagues, or neighbours about it because there is no need, and why should I even explain such things to my children in the first place? Well, if they explicitly asked me I would, since by nature I´m an honest person..... Do you really share your preferences with members of your family?

Being attracted by long hair means by no means that I choose my partner exclusively on the basis of this single feature. Raising children together requires a whole lot more than living your sexual fantasies. In fact, many people make a conscious choice of sacrificing some of their wildest dreams for the sake of having a stable relationship with a good, loving partner who happens not to share or fulfil all their desires. As a female friend of mine once put it: there is no man with whom you can have the sex of your dreams every night AND have a lasting and good relationship on other levels. And she said expressly that this realization is a sign of growing up and developing a realistic notion of the world around you.

My children are grown-ups now, by the way. They are okay and doing fine as far as I can tell, and I don´t have to answer to anyone as I live by myself.

And seeing a woman with beautiful long hair has never made me want to engage in any of the particular sexual activities you describe.

Seeing some women with long hair might actually turn me off immediately - there are some with a vibe that Gordon Lightfoot portrays in his hit "Sundown": "Getting lost in her loving is your first mistake." The woman I first had sex with (shoulder-length hair at the time) turned out to be an expert at emotional blackmail and playing all sorts of games - that was a lesson for life.

You should think a minute before you judge people on the basis of your personal prejudices and misconceptions.