Agree. I think that the origin of the issue lies in the fact that liking "long hair" is not a fetish.

It's evolutionary response. Men who liked fucking women with long hair (healthier females) bread healthier offsprings. That's how you and I came to be

One of the main reasons so many men prefer short hair on women is that this way they become more "accessible" or easier to retain ("damaged goods"). Women were always punished by cutting their hair. Nuns cuts their hair, in all major religions and cultures women hide their hair to be less attractive after marriage or in a church/temple. Common sense!

But a fetish or a "kink" is something different, but not necessarily wrong.

If you happen to like "detached" hair - all the power to you, you have the right.

And other people have the right to think it's screwed up.