you know ;what guys did 10 or 20 years ago; to a lady, like rude remarks, touching a ladys butt; in the work place todaycan and willget you fired, and go look for another job,when they ask you why you left your last job, you have to tell them the truth, anything sexual, follows you like a showdo for a long time. no only on a job, out in public , on the streets or in a bar, will get you a time in jail. her word means jail time in the 1st degree.is it really worth it? being a smart guy costs you alot these day.i myself never was that bold or gutsy, to go up to a strange ladey and ask to feel her hair; in this day in certain cities guys and gals look the same from the back.besides my x and were married 24 yrs; all that time her hair was to her butt, when we were together out in public she wore it down, lol i remember she was out by her self and a guy asked her if he could feel her hair , she said come back to my car and ask my husband, he turned and left her alone then.