I have been married for 30 years, and for most of those years my wife has
worn her hair long; to the middle of her back.
I have never allowed her layers or perms.
She does color it though.
I don't care what color it is as long as it is long.
We both get our hair cut by the same women, Holley.
We always go together when she gets her hair trimmed.
I pay for both of us.
I have my haircut more frequently and wear it fairly long as this is my wife's preference.
I tip Holley well and Holley is well aware of my preferences.
On those occasions when I go alone, Holley and I discuss my wife's hair.
When the time comes, that being when my wife is in her sixties, Holley will strip the color and make my wife's hair a beautiful silver white.
Holley is aware of my hair fetish and enjoys helping me steer my wife in the right direction. Besides, as I said, I tip her well.
My wife Cindy looks beautiful with long hair and I love it when she would puts it up in a bun for me. I also like braids and ponytails.
It has always been all one length and blunt cut.
She has worn it with or without bangs.
Six months ago, she got a chin length bob, blunt cut of course with bangs.
She is now in the process of growing out those bangs, and then the rest of her hair.
My wife and I are 53 years of age. Prior to her haircut a girlfriend told my wife that long hair is for girls. On the plus side, I went with her when she got her haircut. Holley allowed me to cut off her long braid.
I shaved my head and grew a beard, mostly gray. I refused to dress up when we went out and signed her up with the AARP. I started to referring to her as Ma. Mom or my old lady, epecially when in public. My wife hated all of this, especially my shaved head and beard. It worked for me.