Sex vs Self-image

by betterbetter

I wonder what she thinks about the trade-off. None of us are the same people we were when we were 20. She doesn't see her hair as a sexual object -- it's part of how she looks to the outside world now. Giving you sexual pleasure shouldn't have to equal sacrificing her presentation to the world, or her self-image. She is not merely your sexual toy, and I'm sure you realize that. If you are so focussed on the experiences you have had together that you can't have any new ones, then maybe you should try couples therapy. Sex therapy might also be useful if you're stuck in a sexual rut.


Best of luck to you!