hello again, qPhen...well, as far as the money issue goes, I am in the Navy and I don't get paid all that much...but if I had just paid only $20 to a website and then the situation that is going on with my mom had happened, I think I would be more understanding and give her time to either get her site back up or wait for her to refund me the money. It takes time. It seems to me as though if you think $20 is a lot of money, then you shouldn't be spending it on pornographic websites to begin with. You should be putting it into a savings account that earns interest. I can't stand people who bitch about not having money but then go blow what money they do get on porn and shit. You should probably rethink your situation, especially if you think $20 is something to get heated about!