Leona,
Thank you for your courageous honesty in telling us all the truth about your site. You are a true lady.
Not only do I wish to extend my sympathy to you in what you have suffered, I must also say I am aghast that one person's spite should have deprived thousands of people of a little pleasure in their lives - especially since (as I understand it) LHC was on the same server and went down with your site; and what harm had Romeopapa and his members ever done to Mr. L? Words fail me.
At least it's good to know that you've found somebody to give you love and support in this difficult time. We're all looking forward to seeing you come back, but just you make sure you look after yourself and your happiness first. That's the really important thing.