I really feel for you Mandy. It is just horrible what you are having to go through especially after all you have been through with your pregnancy and now your family (Not You) want you to cut your gorgeous long hair. It makes me want to cry. I have people on a regular basis tell me that I should cut my long hair. At first It upset me but now I just look at them and say I love my long hair and so do many others but maybe you should cut out your tongue so that you wouldn't make such rude comments. The reactions I get vary from Oh! I am so sorry, to the individual being so embarrassed that they just walk away. I hope you decide to keep your hair really really long Mandy because you have been an inspiration to me (my hair is currently mid-thigh and on its way to my knees) and to many of my friends. God Bless You