Posting a mostly irrelevant missive to go against Mandy's own decisions (which she has made to maintain relations with her family) on a public fetish site seems to me to be very disrespectful to her wishes.

If Mandy has not asked you for your opinion, perhaps you could keep it to yourself?

Her relationship to her "fans" will NEVER be as important as that to her family in any case.

Please let it rest.