First congratulations Mandy on your pregnancy. Happy to see that you are feeling better. I to was pressured by my husband, family, people who I thought were my friends and certain neighbors, to cut my kneelength. Thank God I did not give into them because after the cut there is nothing left but the crying ans remorse. My closest friends gave me support and I never once even considered the big cut. I told my husband that he asked me to marry him when I had long hair and that if he didn't like it long that he could find someone else. Strong words but they needed to be said. He actually loves my long hair in bed. I hope you find the support you need and know that we love you hear at the Long Hair Forum