Hi Charlotte.
One thing I like about your post is that it's brought all the Brits out of the woodwork! Yes, I'm another one, and probably the nearest to you - I live in Sutton, Surrey.
So you didn't know there was such a thing as a hair fetish? Well, I did - I've loved and been fascinated by long hair on women ever since I can remember, right back into early childhood. I love it silky straight and flowing, any colour but if pushed I'll go for brunettes.
Though it's lovely to have you here, I must warn you that this is a male-oriented forum, and there are better sites out there for tips on growing and caring for long hair. Anrid's suggestion is a good one - The Long Hair Club is a forum where lot of long haired ladies post. Here are a couple of others you could try.
health.groups.yahoo.com/group/FloorLengthHairClub2/?yguid=84015125
community.livejournal.com/longhair/
And if you like The Pope's pictures of Thai ladies, you should try this:
It's a paysite, but there are plenty of free sample pictures. Visit and be amazed - I was.
Since your inbox is already snowed under, I won't add to the pile. I'll just say "Welcome - it's nice to have you here."