i go to this site every single day and am inspired by everyones long hair experiences and dreams and visions. i have loved long hair since i was a kid. i am especially inspired by the people that post on this site about talking to real girls they know in the real world that have long hair. there really is nothing to be scared of. i believe women like to be complimented (sorry, dont want to sound shallow and like "mr know it all). i am in a wheelchair and i have low self esteem. talking to girls is a challenge for me cause i dont know how they will react. however, yesterday was a big FIRST for me and i just have to share it with you all:

its not a long story and to some it might seem unspectacular. however, to me it was a big step. i was on my way home from college on the bus. i got on the bus with my chair and it was jam packed. i basically could only get on and face the back. right behind me, not 2 feet away from me stood the most beautiful creature. she had long blonde silky hair in a ponytail. her mane was hanging down the front of her body, down to her hips! she also had the most gorgeous blue eyes and in my oppinion was very cute. i was wallowing in self-pity as i was facing with my back to her. i was wondering how on earth am i gonna get around to facing her on this crowded bus. also, once i get turned around, will she still be on the bus? anyways, the bus stopped and people were getting off. she was still on the bus and i took that moment to turn myself around to face her! i was shaking in my boots at this point and my heart was pounding. it took me about 2 minutes to finally get the courage to just talk to her. i asked her how her day was and we just chatted about school and stuff. then there was a break in our conversation as we didnt know what to say anymore. i asked her if it would be ok if i complimented her on her beautiful hair. she blushed and grinned and said thanks. i asked her how long shes been growing it and she said 13 years! i told her again her hair was very beautiful. she is a dental hygenist and i am in the IT program. so i dunno if i will ever see her again. however, once she knew i admired her hair, i dont think she minded too much that i was staring at her golden mane for the rest of the trip. i didnt feel that asking her if i can touch her mane would be appropriate on our first meeting. i also dont have any pictures of her to show you, sorry. that was the best 10 minutes of my entire life. i still shake when i think about it. it was amazing and wonderful. i just want to say to the guys out there, if you find a girl beautiful, just tell her! yes, do it in a nice way and dont make it sound like your coming on to her. if you trully admire her, she will sense that your not a shallow jerk and she will appreciate the attention. there again. to all the ladies out there, i hope i dont sound shallow by saying all this. i wish everybody a wonderful long hair day!