My opinion on the "too long" issue is this. I adore seeing extremely long hair on women, but only if it is well maintained and healthy all the way to the ends. Some of the extremely long hair I've seen posted here and elsewhere especially those Chinese sites would be astonishingly beautiful, if they'd trim it off at say, the knees ? the ankles ?! Some women drag around an extra couple of feet of straggly hair just because it is unusual and causes extra attention. But if they'd keep it neat and healthy to the ends even if its just to the ass it would be so much sexier. The most beautiful hair I've ever personally seen was just above the knees and just as thick and healthy and perfectly trimmed at the ends as at her scalp, like a thick silky paint brush. That's sexy hair !