Oddly, as much as I hate to harken back a few weeks to a post by the woman who was posting on this board trying to understand why her man was frequenting this site, the very same thing happened to our combrade. He was surfing here "on the sly" and his lovely bride somehow found out about it, along with some "items" he had stashed. So the banishment was basically the result of an issued ultimatum. "Your marriage or your porn." Fortunately (for me anyway) I am not in a position to have to make that decision at this point in my life. But I am quite sure there are many of you out there who can easily relate to the plight of our fallen brother. So take a lesson. This may well be a defining moment for you. Fantasy, Fetish, or full-blown Obsession.