PC,
If it was really about "the love of shear beauty and mother nature is why we live" then there would be no complaints about minimum lengths and the site would abound with stunning photos of men in all their long haired glory to be non-sexually admired by everyone.
Why avoid the term fetish? There is nothing wrong with a person knowing their specific turn-ons and consentually acting on them or having fantasies. I am proud to be the love of a man with a fetish for long hair but it is his respect for me as a person, and his honesty, that won my heart.
Elizabeth