Hi Luckydog,
I kind of like this discussion as it makes me reflect on my very strong attraction to long hair. And for me, on accasion it can become a pure fetish.
Before I got the internet in 1996, I really thought I was alone with this fetish. I then discovered some websites that were dedicated to it. Frank's web site was the first one I could indulge my fantasy in:
There are some description of the word fetish that seems to imply that the object of the fetish itself can be taken alone to reach the pleasure.
Here's the description (item #3) on The American Heritage Dictionary :
bartleby.com/61/29/F0092900.html
I have to confess that for me the attraction to long hair can go up to that point. The way light plays in the strands of hair and makes silky reflections can turns me on quite a bit. If I am not in a couple and my libino is high enough, just the sight of long hair alone can triger my arousal and lead me to my pleasure, but I would rather see it on a pretty woman than just a hair piece of long hair.
I will probably never look to get in a couple with a woman that has short hair. Just too boring for me. I just hope to find a woman that will let me regularly indulge my fetish in a loving and wholesome relationship with her.
Cheers 