Well I never really ever respond to these much but I guess i'll have to start. I have a lady friend that I've known since we were about 18 or 19, and like some it may be hard to let some know about your fetish due to you dont want them to think ur a weirdo or something, and some may frown at the Idea of U playing with or in their hair so I did it like this, whenever there would be foreplay I'd have her let her hair down and anytime it would graze my body I would show my sighs of approval repeatedly and say something to the effect of, "if U do that again I will really lose control". and after awhile she started paying attention and doing it on purpose and loves to do it. We can discuss hairplay and the love of longhair w/o a problem. Now if there is a girl that U really like and U want them in on ur fetish but know that they wouldnt be game to the idea, U might have to just let it go, but if there is someone that U really dont have feelings for and dont mind risking what they think of U, just tell'm it would be a fantasy if.... blah, and U'd be suprised who would jump at the idea of it. I have other ways if this does not work, let me know.

Monte