Why is there so much hatred and pain in porn these days? Balls in mouth, tying people up, hitting...etc. I don't get it. It is no part of sex or love. Is it just us or have we gotten more violent over time? Certainly the medieval time was horrendous but it seems we haven't improved much. It appears we can't look at ourselves and therefore we're in a long slow decline.

Yes, I have a strong hair fetish; always have. Sorry for the vent, just my two cents.