Hey everyone, I go by a bunch of pseudonyms, but you can call me Neuron. I’m a 21 y/o university student from the US in the STEM field.

I first deduced I had a kink? fetish? (I suppose the exact term depends on who you ask) for long hair a good chunk of years ago, granted it’s not the only “divergent” part of my sexuality. I’m also on the autism spectrum, (I basically have Aspergers for any older dudes confused) and we tend to “hyperfocus” often, which is one potential explanation for why we have so many damn fetishes all the time

Anyways, there’s this girl I have a platonic relationship with at uni; we’ve been messaging for a while about life and our common interests. She doesn’t have the longest hair (it’s around shoulderblade to bra-strap length) but I could see us in a more serious relationship regardless. If it does go down this path, what should I do regarding my interest in her hair? I want to start off with nothing crazy, probably some hairplay and scalp massages, but I still don’t want to come across as weird. I don’t want to pressure her into anything whatsoever, but growing her hair long could also help with her self-confidence, getting compliments, etc., as she’s been bullied quite a bit

Besides this, if you ever just wanna talk about hair and life in general, I’m down to talk in the forum or via email.

-Neuron