I feel obliged to comment that I admire your courage to post pictures of your real wife here, and you have made some of the more sensible and empathetic ones among us almost jealous, leading a long-time marriage with a long-haired woman who is not a distant dream and a creature of makeup and AI, but a real loving partner with what seems to be a warm, welcoming character.

Ignore the trolls and enjoy what you have. And give my regards to your wife.