Basically what happened with me and my fiance, for the most part.

She's also Asian and when we first met online her hair was shoulder length.

After I revealed my fetish she starting taking care of her hair more and grew it to classic length before cutting it back due to trouble maintaining it.

She's growing her hair again,and it's now below her mid back and incredibly thick. She straightens it to look presentable at work, but on days off she'll leave it fluffy because she knows i like it that way. Her unstraightened hair feels like diving into a river of layered silk and gets me hard super quick.

A part of me hopes she'll grow it to classic length or beyond but even if not, I love her all the same.