Thank you for your reply and suggestion.
1. See my earlier reply.
2. I am. Very much. And she is too. Which is what makes what we (I) are (am) going through so much more frustrating and SCARY! I mean...what does it say about me (believe me I've pondered on this a LOT since all this happened) if I cannot get an erection with my wife JUST BECAUSE SHE CUT HER HAIR AND IT IS NOW SHORT?!? I am questioning everything and blaming myself.
Not a good place to be.
I just need to be patient and hope things will soon get back to what it was. As in earlier reply, I think the wig idea is a good one, I will try this.
Thank you.