My wife knows that long and beautiful hair is very important to me, but I guess she doesn't know it's a fully fletched fetish, even when I told her she doesn't quite understand what it means, I think. But she enjoys it too when I brush it and play with it. Her hair was waist length when we met, sadly it's much shorter now but I still enjoy it. I don't want to place the burden of maintaining it and dealing with it all day while having 3 little children on her, but maybe she will let it grow again when our life gets quieter again.