Hi Chris, thanks for the links. I've tried most of the stuff mentioned on them - taking a break, thinking of something "unsexy", changing position (but I only have 2 and both lead to the same problem!), the "squeeze" technique, etc, but none seem to work for me.
One of the links did mention a "Delay Spray" called VigRX. Effectively a mild anesthetic that desensitizes the penis and hence prolongs intercourse prior to ejaculation. This is kinda what I was wanting to get info on - has anyone actually tried this particular spray and does it work? Or any other similar ones that have? Of course one does not want it to work so well in desensitizing to the point of making an erection not possible in the first place!
And, no, I have not had a hairjob. Hopefully one day!