How to address shyness/have successful hair fetish?

by Mystery Man

So although I've had this fetish for years but personally I get super shy about approaching girls other than in a "hey, nice hair" which in its own right is a nice compliment but really on its own just lends to awkwardness.

The thing that bothers me the most and discourages me from approaching hair women is the idea I'll be caught with a hard-on.

Anyone got any advice on how to work through things to eventually have hairjob?