Hey Anya!
Oh thanks god that you are up and well as good as it could be! I'm really so excited for your return, so it's an official: YES, please return with the ideas you just proposed. As long as you are happy with it and feel good, it's definitely the only right choice!
So:
1. Congratulations for your trim! It's always important to trim the hair from time to time - and even if it would be a greater trim, you are not a hair queen. I just appreciate the beauty that's beside all that glorious hair: Your smile, your funny and good roleplaying skills and also the community beating heart, that we feel in every of your words - so no, your beauty didn't ever depend on your hair
2. Congratulations for getting married! I really loved to hear that - being loved, especially as a woman like you are, is not just important, but hell - it's a man's duty. Otherwise I would feel force to tell him some serious words! :D
3. You NEVER got to go to the gym unless you really feel to do that - but like in point no. 1 = Your beauty also doesn't depend on that. I would really love to see you BEFORE going to the gym. I love naturality, so it would be so awesome to give you a compliment while still having the chance to do, when it would have a greater effect
Greetings,
Pat