I find that I have become more turned on by "defined" curls, mermaid curls, ringlets, etc. but not frizzy curly hair, probably because of my last GF (below). The first time I really talked to her, she had wavy/curly red hair just down past her shoulders. She was sitting in her car when I stuck by head in the rolled down window & I got hit with this amazing scent of herbal shampoo, estrogen, & pheromones. I think that's why girls grow hair in their most interesting areas. For to hold the sex pheromones for me to smell. Especially ORANGE PUBIC HAIR. It was like smelling a unicorn.

So this car talk was at around 11PM after we got off work. She had washed her hair in the morning, worked all day, and here it is almost bedtime and this beautiful aroma is knocking me over. We started dating in a few weeks when I found out clues. She never brushes her curly hair, just detangles it in shower with conditioner. She never blow dries it, just scrunches or makes a braid which means it is basically wet/damp half of the day. That'll keep your hair smelling great all day.

Since I never smoked my whole life, a potential GF that smoked cigarettes was always a deal breaker, no matter her looks. If we ever were in a smoky night club or bar, we both had to take showers & throw our clothes in the washer before frisky time.

So all my wives & girl friends have had "long hair" at some point in our relationship which for me meant past their boobs. With this last curly redhead, we would go to the salon together, and I would tell her stylist just an inch or two off and she would tell mine to make it a pretty short "guy's" cut since I always had longish hippie hair from growing up in the 60's & playing in a rock band. A pretty good deal on my part I think.

She inspired my Redhairisthebest forum name but I also had to ween myself off of Kinkyforums and PC's site in 2005 for a long time as it can get to be crack-like addicting.

99.9% of just the girls I see around me in my daily life don't have the fantasy hair I dream about on this Long Hair Forum and since I'm no catch, I consider myself very lucky to have dated & married 3 honest to god redheads with fairly long hair at some point.

The Ex:

The Dream: she will grow it longer. I just know it!