It's not very kind what skankhunt42 said, but honestly it's the truth.
We are all adults and should accept the truth. I do not look like Brad Pitt or Georg Clooney, I'm ugly and also fat. I'm 31 and never had a girlfriend. Yes it's sad but this is the life!
It's a stupid behavior of our society to tell everyone: wow you are soo nice and sexy even if it's definitely not the truth.
Don't be naive!