O don't cut your hair dear. There are many guys like us who like to take care of your hair. It took you 20 years to let it grow long so you know that it take soooo much time to get it as beautiful as it is now so don't think of cutting it. For me long hair is like a crown on a woman. It is by far the most beautiful thing a woman can have. I can look at it for hours and love to play with it and take care of :-)
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