As a man as a long hair fetisher all i can say is long hair is the most attractive, beautiful & sexy thing of any girl/woman from any part of the world. Because of long hair any girl or woman looks far better then 'bikini' girl. It is great to hear that some one has been growing her hair for 20 years. , also it is really nice that you r interested to know what hair fetishers like to do with long beautiful & sexy hair. It feels great when u talk to another person regarding same thing. I wud really love to share my opinion with you. pls contact with me in this adress :