While I don't doubt that you are well-intentioned and trying to share your collection with other long hair lovers, unless you provide some sort of information your posts look a lot like spam, and no one who is security minded is going to download an unknown file to their computer, unless they know/trust you personally. For instance, here is the "name" of the clip that you provided a link to upload:

Weekly hair care routine - Part II.flv

This would be helpful, although the clincher would of course be a screen capture of the video, or some representative pics. I think it's great that you're sharing, but the more we know about your links, the more likely people will actually check them out. Just some food for thought...