There are good and bad long hair loving boy friends. Those of us who read this group probably belong to the latter. At least I need help for my porn addiction. I have tried a psychologist - it only helped for a few months. We tried family therapy - it also helped for a few months. I tried a SLAA mailing list in my country. It did not help much - or I was not motivated going through the steps seriously. Finally I tried a cognitive behavoural therapy psychologist. It did not help at all. The only thing that helped for several was a good Internet content filter/parental control software (cyberpatrol). But now I found ways around it.

So my advaice to all girls that are in for long term relationships: stay out of our way. We don't deserve you.