Alright, u really reached the level mentioned on yr bio.
I can imagine the diffulties with such long hair, coz many things in life have often advantages and disadvantages. Which balance is acceptable again u may think for yrself. If trimming yr hair back to calflength give some air and reduce some of the disadvantages then I would say choose for that. Although i find it attractive to see a woman carrying her hair on her hand or being creative by keeping her hair above the floor but still letting it grow, its a level too far for u to do that. I respect that. U already achieve so much starting with waistlength hair and now tickling the floor. A stabilisation fase seems to start now where at least yr hair will get thicker at the ends after a trim. Do what feels more comfortable again, dear Anya.
ThanX for sharing yr questions and thoughts!
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