Just my opinion. Of course length matters. Why else would we even be here ? But I think whats even more important is quality. Nothing is a bigger turn-off to me than seeing a woman with extremely long hair thats all scraggly and thin at the ends. It just looks ragged and sloppy to me. On the other hand, a woman with hair to her thighs (or beyond ) with a thick blunt hemline is an instant turn-on for me ! It just looks healthy, and feels so good to the touch, your fingers glide right through it ! So, to answer your question, Anya, I would love to see you get your hair cut back to where its all one-length, thick and beautiful ! No shorter than your perfect butt, of course ! I Hope that helps !