Had a date last night. She has had short hair her whole life. Now her hair is bra length and its gorgeous. Thick, dark brown. She tells me she wants to grow it a few inches longer too. I am in my upper 40's and there are not a lot of long hair ladies my age. I am a guy who works out, she does some. But she is like 20 pounds heavier than average I think. Now before people get mad, I would have no questions in my mind if she were average for her age. I don't need a skinny model type. I did touch her hair some, felt awesome!! Give advice please, what would you do?